Why Did I Do What I Did? Uncovering the Six Layers of Deception in Betrayal | EP. 1

Welcome to Season 3! This season is dedicated to answering the questions we've received from countless couples: "Why did I betray my spouse? Why did I lie? Why did I go against my own integrity and values?" If you've ever felt like you're doing the very thing you swore you never would, this episode is for you.

Join Travis and Adelle as they introduce a massive discovery from their own journey of Brokenness to Restoration—the Six Layers of Deception. These are the hidden forces operating in the blind spots of your life, driving actions that lead to betrayal and disconnect.

In this powerful opener, we lay the foundation for understanding that your struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against a real enemy with specific, detailed schemes to destroy your marriage and separate you from God. You are not alone in this battle, and the Bible provides the key to lasting freedom.

Key Takeaways & Discussion Points 

• The War for Your Heart: Discover the "seed war" mentioned in Genesis 3:15 and recognize that there is a battle for your heart and your marriage operating behind the scenes.

• The Apostle Paul's Dilemma: Understand why we often do what we hate, relating to Romans 7:15, and how this common human experience points to a deeper issue beneath the surface.

• A Detailed Blueprint: We discuss Ephesians 6:11-12, identifying the "devil's schemes"—a detailed, personal blueprint the enemy uses to target you specifically.

• It's Not Your Spouse: A refreshing look at the truth that "our struggle is not against flesh and blood" (Ephesians 6:12). Your spouse is not the enemy; deception is.

• Why Superficial Healing Fails: Learn why addressing only the surface issues is like bandaging an infected wound. True, lasting healing after betrayal requires digging deep to address all six layers of deception.

• The Answer is Jesus Christ: The ultimate truth is that through surrender and faith, He who is in you is greater than he who is in the world. Jesus offers the full, abundant life (John 10:10) that is inaccessible when we live under deception.

 Action Steps for Lasting Freedom

1. Acknowledge the Battle: Acknowledge that your struggle is spiritual, not just circumstantial. This awareness is the first step toward a battle plan.

2. Commit to the Season: This short, compact season is packed with "golden nuggets." Plan to watch (or listen to) each of the seven episodes at least twice and take notes.

3. Surrender: If you are struggling, immediately surrender to Jesus Christ. You don't need to clean up your mess first; He is the answer.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode

• Becoming Whole and Complete Program: Dive deeper into the concepts discussed in this season with exercises, activities, and reflection designed to help you discover true freedom in your own home. [You may want to insert a link to your academy/program here]

• Past Episode on Satan's Existence: [You may want to insert a link to the 2-hour episode mentioned here]

• Live Q&A Sessions: Join us every fourth episode on YouTube for a live Q&A where we engage with your comments and questions about betrayal, healing, and the layers of deception. All free! 

🙏 Scripture References

• Genesis 3:15

• Romans 7:15, 23-25

• Proverbs 4:23

• Ephesians 6:11-12

• John 10:10

• Matthew (reference to the yoke)